I am also running buddy press and would like to keep some of the information that it normally posts into the admin bar. Specifically I would like for the buddy press notifications and the buddy press dropdown user menu to appear as items in the primary menu instead of the admin bar. The site in question is http://droneclowns.com
Thanks for writing in! We can’t see what’s on your admin bar without login to your site. However do you want them to add to your menu? Then you can add as custom links from Appearance > Menus.